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The Flowers #11
Some losses, you don’t really recover from in the true sense of the word.People inquire from time to time (God bless them) but there isn’t a way to adequately describe the walk through child loss. Time passes and you move … Continue reading
The Dinner Party #10
I’ve said in previous posts that there are certain dates that are more difficult for the griever. They come upon you in a wave like crash. You do not have to look at a calendar, your body feels it before … Continue reading
Perspective #9
I haven’t felt very inspired to write since losing my brother a few month’s ago. Last night, I found this – something I wrote a couple of years ago while traveling by plane to a work event. Perspective is a … Continue reading
The Light #8
Tragic events shake our core, often bringing us to question many things. We ask, we reevaluate the importance and meaning of our lives. Sometimes, our faith is shattered and rebuilt in a different way. Personally, it is my belief that … Continue reading
Synchronicities and Signs #7
for Alex and Leslie…. It’s a funny thing how we move through life in a constant state of hurry up pretty much ignoring everything around us…everything that is that really matters. How often do you stop and honestly breathe in … Continue reading
Do They Hear Us? #6
Loss and difficulty in life comes often with what is commonly referred to as a “crisis of faith.” Put to the test often enough it becomes hard to believe that anyone is listening anymore inevitably leading one to question the … Continue reading
The First Anniversary..the Gift #5
Anniversary dates are difficult for the griever. Why they are remains sort of a mystery to me in a sense. It’s just a date on the calendar but we mark it and just like we celebrate birthdays and anniversaries, death … Continue reading
The Cab Driver #4
There are those times when Brian decides to make contact in some ridiculously irrefutable way. If you knew him, you would know that he had a sense of humor. It was sideways of sorts and childlike at times even as … Continue reading
A Few Words About Grief and Depression #3
With the loss of a child, naturally comes an incredible burden of grief. I’ve come to describe it as a backpack of bricks you are tasked to carry around forever. In the beginning, it is impossible to pick up. Try … Continue reading
Where are you?…The Beginning #2
In starting this blog, there were lots of thoughts streaming through my head as to where to start. A lot has happened since Brian left. The questions that have swirled around about exactly what to divulge and how to do … Continue reading